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For a followup post visit, “I Kept My Virginity, But Not My Purity: Part Two”A few weeks ago I got a phone call from one of my girlfriends announcing that she got a boyfriend. Kissing standing up is totally different and not nearly as stimulating as kissing each other while lying on the couch. Sexual activity represents a deep and powerful level of intimacy and vulnerability.I asked her what she intended to say to him about how they will protect their purity. I think when many people today discuss protecting one’s purity, they confuse “purity” with “virginity.” The value is placed on whether or not one is a virgin, not if they have compromised any other part of their body or mind to maintain their virginity. By God’s intention, the only relationship God designed to thrive on and sustain this level of intimacy, is a godly, devoted marriage between man and woman, husband and wife.A very good friend of mine recently broke up with her boyfriend.They were both Christians, very involved in the church and on the outside seemed happy.
He said that was great and he really respects that.I really hope you can help me with this predicament.About a month and a half ago, I met this guy at a bar, the day after I had just ended a very short and confusing juvenile relationship.His fixation on the fact that she had previously had sex, even though she was repentant about this, clouded their relationship.
He was devastated when she broke up with him, and could never admit anything he'd done wrong.
The Chat was never really an issue for me until three years ago.